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White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now. No New White Friends. No New OR Old White Allies (if you not my accomplice or my comrade tried and tested through battle already…back up.) No New White anything. These white folks perpetuating hate and ignorance, marching in the street is your local pharmacist. Your butcher at your local market. Somebody Grandmother who adds hatred to her pies as her special ingredient. The bus driver that drives down main street in YOUR town. Somebodies beloved uncle. Your favorite Grandpa. The random quiet IT guy in the back. The trash guy. That one white dude you sit down the way from at yo job. The Sheriff. Your congressmen. The head of your local watch program. The cashier at the gas station. The unchecked good...

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Thank You to all my deliciously sensual friends.

Thank You to all my deliciously sensual friends. To all my sex positive pro orgasmic friends. To all my people who are un-apologetically hedonistic and students of pleasure. To the women in my life who give themselves unconditional love and permission to pursue the gift of their bliss and their clits down the rabbit hole of cosmic euphoria. To all the men in my life who allow sexual sensual rapture to find them through softness and hardness who move past toxic male sexuality in order to access the magic in their penis. To all my people stepping out of the gender binary while celebrating their pleasure by honoring and centering sexual bliss in their lives. To all my folks that understand and perpetuate the connection between the sexual / sensual / spiritual. To my...

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For those struggling with Mental Health.

Your friends and family are out here suffering in plain sight with mental illness. Some of you are out here suffering in plan sight with mental illness. There is no shame on having mental illness. There is no shame in having trauma. There is no shame in dealing with your mental health. There is no shame on your deep grief. There is no shame in seeking help and healing. There is no shame on helping our brothers, sisters, and loved ones heal. If you need help please seek help. You are worthy, loved and deeply needed on this planet. If you see your family, friends, suffering in plain sight and you have love, a listening ear. Resources, a hug, a willingness and energy to assist, please help. Because sometimes your hand held out in love and assistance could be the...

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Dear Future Love,

Dear Future Love, I complete me. You complete you. We complete we. You are whole without me. I am whole without you. When we come together we will transcend everything from our past to become untied and then united in something new. I look forward to growing with you. I look forward to becoming with you. I look forward to loving with you. I look forward to you. Until then, keep manifesting greatness until it is time to manifest each other. I love you. I live you. LadySpeech

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Dear America…I’m Still Gonna have Beautiful Black Babies…

Dear America, I’m still gonna have babies. Your hatred of me isn’t going to tell my womb what to do. I am greater than you. There was no plan for my people. Any of my people. We were all supposed to die. You have done an amazing job of almost killing us. But you can’t quite get rid of us. Every time you come soooooo close. Yet no cigar. This is what fuels your anger these days. It’s the fact that I, we will not stay down. I used to fear having babies. I mean WHO in their right mind would want to do that right!? Who would want to bring any life let alone BLACK life into this hateful world. There is a good chance that I’ll bury my child before my child gets the chance to bury me. There is a chance that my child will be slain by the effects of...

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Dear Activist men who are currently using the movement to get your dicks wet, A few things…

Dear Activist men who are currently using the movement to get your dicks wet…a few things… I get it. Fighting for justice makes us all a little randy in the pants. There is nothing wrong with consensual fucking to work yo shit out. There is everything wrong with fucking & womanizing your way through an organization of women using the movement and articulate political speech as foreplay. There is everything wrong with pitting women against each other because you lie and lead women on and can’t seem to keep your dick in your pants. You my friend disrespect women, the movement, and yourself every time you use the movement to get pussy. A warning, if you are in my community and I find out you out here disrespecting my sisters, not only am I...

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