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LadySpeech’s rules for a successful cuddle season.

LadySpeech’s rules for a successful cuddle season.

Cuddle season is here. And seeing how I am about to start hitting folks up for some good old fashion cuddle sessions here are a few of my rules. 1. We both bring cuddle snacks. Snacks must not be too messy so we don’t fuck up the bed, fort, pallet, coach, or nest of pillows we are on. Also they must be easy to eat while in various cuddle positions. 2. Be prepared to nap. Because we all know that a good cuddle is a gateway drug to a good nap. We gone do some quality sleeping (as in we sleep, go night night together and NOT FUCK each other). 3. Sometimes cuddling leads to fucking (not always). But if we are attracted to each other….and we cuddling…bring condoms…Because we need to be prepared for whatever happens. 4. Platonic cuddling is my...

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Note to self (and anybody else that needs it). A word about healing…

Note To Self (and anybody else that needs it) The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving as a person is that it sometimes means you leave loved ones, family, comrades and friends who do not want to grow, heal and evolve behind. The hardest things about about growth, healing, and evolving as a person is that your growth, your healing, and your evolution remind your loved ones, family, comrades, and friends where they have not or have REFUSED to grow within themselves. Their “hatred” of you is really their disappointment in themselves and their own SELF hatred rearing its ugly head. The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving is that as bad as you wanna take everyone on this healing journey with you…you can’t. Every one has...

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White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now. No New White Friends. No New OR Old White Allies (if you not my accomplice or my comrade tried and tested through battle already…back up.) No New White anything. These white folks perpetuating hate and ignorance, marching in the street is your local pharmacist. Your butcher at your local market. Somebody Grandmother who adds hatred to her pies as her special ingredient. The bus driver that drives down main street in YOUR town. Somebodies beloved uncle. Your favorite Grandpa. The random quiet IT guy in the back. The trash guy. That one white dude you sit down the way from at yo job. The Sheriff. Your congressmen. The head of your local watch program. The cashier at the gas station. The unchecked good...

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Thank You to all my deliciously sensual friends.

Thank You to all my deliciously sensual friends. To all my sex positive pro orgasmic friends. To all my people who are un-apologetically hedonistic and students of pleasure. To the women in my life who give themselves unconditional love and permission to pursue the gift of their bliss and their clits down the rabbit hole of cosmic euphoria. To all the men in my life who allow sexual sensual rapture to find them through softness and hardness who move past toxic male sexuality in order to access the magic in their penis. To all my people stepping out of the gender binary while celebrating their pleasure by honoring and centering sexual bliss in their lives. To all my folks that understand and perpetuate the connection between the sexual / sensual / spiritual. To my...

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For those struggling with Mental Health.

Your friends and family are out here suffering in plain sight with mental illness. Some of you are out here suffering in plan sight with mental illness. There is no shame on having mental illness. There is no shame in having trauma. There is no shame in dealing with your mental health. There is no shame on your deep grief. There is no shame in seeking help and healing. There is no shame on helping our brothers, sisters, and loved ones heal. If you need help please seek help. You are worthy, loved and deeply needed on this planet. If you see your family, friends, suffering in plain sight and you have love, a listening ear. Resources, a hug, a willingness and energy to assist, please help. Because sometimes your hand held out in love and assistance could be the...

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Dear Future Love,

Dear Future Love, I complete me. You complete you. We complete we. You are whole without me. I am whole without you. When we come together we will transcend everything from our past to become untied and then united in something new. I look forward to growing with you. I look forward to becoming with you. I look forward to loving with you. I look forward to you. Until then, keep manifesting greatness until it is time to manifest each other. I love you. I live you. LadySpeech

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