Musings of LadySpeech

Note to Self (and anyone else who needs it). Focus.

Note to Self (And Anyone else who needs it) Focus on your glow up. Focus on your healing. Focus on the epic beat down you need to hand deliver to your fears. Focus on what makes you happy and what satisfies you. Focus on love. Focus on your peace. Focus on your growth. Focus on joy. Focus on your pleasure. Focus on your part in creating a better world. Focus your love on Mother Earth. Focus on your goals. Focus on your wings and your flight towards success. Focus on your medicine. Focus on your village. Focus your love, hugs, time, and medicine on the babies. Focus on the elders and the wisdom they give. Focus on your path, your purpose, your calling. Focus on the opportunities Universe has for you. Focus on your transformation. Focus your energy. Focus. I love...

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LadySpeech’s rules for a successful cuddle season.

LadySpeech’s rules for a successful cuddle season.

Cuddle season is here. And seeing how I am about to start hitting folks up for some good old fashion cuddle sessions here are a few of my rules. 1. We both bring cuddle snacks. Snacks must not be too messy so we don’t fuck up the bed, fort, pallet, coach, or nest of pillows we are on. Also they must be easy to eat while in various cuddle positions. 2. Be prepared to nap. Because we all know that a good cuddle is a gateway drug to a good nap. We gone do some quality sleeping (as in we sleep, go night night together and NOT FUCK each other). 3. Sometimes cuddling leads to fucking (not always). But if we are attracted to each other….and we cuddling…bring condoms…Because we need to be prepared for whatever happens. 4. Platonic cuddling is my...

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Note to self (and anybody else that needs it). A word about healing…

Note To Self (and anybody else that needs it) The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving as a person is that it sometimes means you leave loved ones, family, comrades and friends who do not want to grow, heal and evolve behind. The hardest things about about growth, healing, and evolving as a person is that your growth, your healing, and your evolution remind your loved ones, family, comrades, and friends where they have not or have REFUSED to grow within themselves. Their “hatred” of you is really their disappointment in themselves and their own SELF hatred rearing its ugly head. The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving is that as bad as you wanna take everyone on this healing journey with you…you can’t. Every one has...

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White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

White foods and white folks will kill you. A.K.A Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now.

Having white friends is dangerous as fuck right now. No New White Friends. No New OR Old White Allies (if you not my accomplice or my comrade tried and tested through battle already…back up.) No New White anything. These white folks perpetuating hate and ignorance, marching in the street is your local pharmacist. Your butcher at your local market. Somebody Grandmother who adds hatred to her pies as her special ingredient. The bus driver that drives down main street in YOUR town. Somebodies beloved uncle. Your favorite Grandpa. The random quiet IT guy in the back. The trash guy. That one white dude you sit down the way from at yo job. The Sheriff. Your congressmen. The head of your local watch program. The cashier at the gas station. The unchecked good...

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For those struggling with Mental Health.

Your friends and family are out here suffering in plain sight with mental illness. Some of you are out here suffering in plan sight with mental illness. There is no shame on having mental illness. There is no shame in having trauma. There is no shame in dealing with your mental health. There is no shame on your deep grief. There is no shame in seeking help and healing. There is no shame on helping our brothers, sisters, and loved ones heal. If you need help please seek help. You are worthy, loved and deeply needed on this planet. If you see your family, friends, suffering in plain sight and you have love, a listening ear. Resources, a hug, a willingness and energy to assist, please help. Because sometimes your hand held out in love and assistance could be the...

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Stretch Marks the spot for self love.

Years ago I got upset with all the marketing that is aimed towards getting rid of stretch marks. This anger came after dealing with and healing from years of abusing my body in the quest to be thin while dealing with Body Dysmorphic Disorder. I dealt in some dangerous activities in the quest to lose weight. Lots of the things I did worked. I am thankful and count my blessings I wasn’t one of the people who died from engaging in those things. In the quest to embrace, love, heal and move back in to my body part by part limb by limb, I discovered and reprogrammed this indoctrinated hatred for my stretch marks that I didn’t like. I reclaimed and renamed mine in order to rebirth and reinforce eternal a complete love for every part of my body. My stretch...

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