Note to self (and anybody else that needs it). A word about healing…

Note To Self (and anybody else that needs it)
The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving as a person is that it sometimes means you leave loved ones, family, comrades and friends who do not want to grow, heal and evolve behind.
The hardest things about about growth, healing, and evolving as a person is that your growth, your healing, and your evolution remind your loved ones, family, comrades, and friends where they have not or have REFUSED to grow within themselves. Their “hatred” of you is really their disappointment in themselves and their own SELF hatred rearing its ugly head.
The hardest thing about growth, healing and evolving is that as bad as you wanna take everyone on this healing journey with you…you can’t. Every one has to MAKE THE CHOICE to heal, to confront their inner demons, to process their pain and emotions and trauma, and seek healing. It is NOT possible to carry someone to the healing waters. It is ONLY possible to support someone who has MADE THE CHOICE to walk to the healing waters to grow, heal and evolve.
The hardest things about growth, healing and evolving is that you will sometimes be HATED, targeted, and attacked by people simply because they cannot handle the SUNLIGHT of who you are. Because they are so sick and your light shines a spot light on that. Because you have the audacity to do what they have been sacred to to for a long time.
Stunt your growth for NO ONE.
Stop your SHINE for NO ONE.
Pause your healing for NO ONE.
Put the brakes on your evolution for NO ONE.
Love yourself without apology.
Know that this will make people uncomfortable and that is NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
Heal yourself without apology.
Know that this will trigger some people and that is NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
Be yourself without apology.
Know that this will challenge people and that is NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
Know that the negative energy they throw at you is THEIR OWN SELF HATE manifested and that is NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
-Love LadySpeech

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